Interview with Parents:

 

 

 

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For this assignment we have decided to focus on, and learn more about recently arrived male immigrants from Mexico.  The parents that we interviewed are similar in that they are all from the southern state of Yucatan, Spanish is the primary

 

language at home, yet they are familiar with and use the Mayan language to communicate.

 

 

  Francisco middle school is one of the smallest middle schools in the district of San Francisco. Over 90% of the school population qualifies for free or reduced lunch. Most of the students who attend Francisco Middle School live in China town, the Tenderloin, Western addition and a few students live in the Mission and Bayview Hunters Point.  Last year Francisco Middle School received a large number of newcomer students, most of whom came from Latin American countries. Currently Francisco has an ESL program, where students are taught mostly in English.  This year the school received an even larger number of newcomer students, most of them male and from the southern state of Yucatan Mexico.  For this assignment, I interviewed three parents to find out how they felt about the school. 

 

Two interviews were conducted over the phone and one was done in person.

 

The main questions asked were;

 

1.         What do you think is the goal or purpose of going to school or getting an education?

2.         What are your hopes and dreams you have for your child ?

3.         What are your worries or what worries you the most about your child’s future.

4.         Do you have any suggestions for the school, teachers and administrators

5.         What is the main difference between the Mexican education system and the U.S educational system.

 

 

Parent # 1

 

*          Father of male student in the 7th grade

*           Whole family has been in the country for four months

*          Interview was conducted over the phone.

*          Originally from Yucatan Mexico 

 

 

1.         What do you think is the goal or purpose of going to school or getting an education? 

 

 I want my son to be safe and have a positive place where he can learn?  I want him to learn English and be able to function in this country.  I would say that the main purpose is for him to lean English, and I wish that his teachers would only speak to him in English. 

 

2.          What are your hopes and dreams you have for your child ?

 

At this point I just want to keep him safe, I really worry about joining a gang or starting to use drugs.  His mother is not with us at this time and I think its really starting to upset him.  The schools  calls me almost everyday to let me know his doing something wrong.  I try talking to him and he seems to listen, yet when his on his own he does is own things and forgets everything I told him.  I worry that he will let a great opportunity go by. 

 

3.         What are your worries?

 

  As I mentioned before I worry that he will start to use drugs or just stop listening to me and believe others over me.  Gangs are a problem in our country (Mexico) and I know how destructive they can be and I really don’t want him to join a gang. 

 

4.         Do you have any suggestions for the school, teachers and administration?

 

      I really want the school to continue calling me when something is wrong, its        important that I know everything, this way I can help my son.  I think the school is doing a great job.

 

5.          What is the main difference between the Mexican education system and the U.S educational system. 

 

 In Mexico they would never call when their was a problem, I like the fact that here they call you all the time.  The communication is better here.  I think its important and at least we get to learn more about my son and his behavior. 

 

 

Parent # 2

 

á       Father of student in the 8th grade

á       Interview was conducted over the phone

á       Family has been in the country for less than 3 months

á       Family is originally from Yucatan Mexico

 

1.         What do you think is the goal or purpose of going to school or getting an education?

 

I want my son to be educated and go to the University, that is what he is here for.  As a family we had the option of having him stay in Mexico or bringing him over with us.  In a way this was an experiment, we wanted to see if life was really easier over here.  It was getting hard for us in Mexico, we tried and tried yet things were still hard.   Me and my wife only made it to middle school because of economics or the lack of money in the family we were not able to go on to high school.  I want my son to go all the way to the university. 

 

2.         What are your hopes and dreams you have for your child ?

 

I want him to be happy, safe and educated.  Education is very important t o me and my only hope at this time is that he learn English and continue his education. 

 

3.         What are your worries or what worries you the most about your child’s future.

 

Well recently I’ve become very concern about my sons behavior, Personally I see a big change in him.  He used to talk to me and tell me about his day, now he gets upset when I ask him and he prefers to not let me know what his thinking.  I think his having a hard time adjusting, yet he tells me that he likes his new home and school.  I’ve also noticed that he prefers to spend more time with his friends and less with us or studying.  It’s no use for me to want him to go to school and learn more if he prefers to run around with his friends and just have fun all the time.  I worry  that he wont take education seriously and let a great opportunity pass.

 

4.         Do you have any suggestions for the school, teachers and administrators

 

No I have no suggestions for the school I like the way things sswork here, it makes feel that the school really cares and wants to make things better for my son.  I especially like it when the schools calls me to let me know my son did something wrong.  I wish he would behave better, but as I mentioned before his changing. 

 

5.         What is the main difference between the Mexican education system and the U.S educational system. 

 

     Here they call you and in Mexico they never called, it was as if everything was   perfect al the time.  And I know that there is no such thing as a perfect student or person.  The communication system is better here. 

 

 

Parent # 3

*          Mother of the student

*          Interview conducted in person

*          Family has been in the country for less than five months

*          Family is originally from Yucatan Mexico

 

 

1.     What do you think is the goal or purpose of going to school or getting an education?

I think that the purpose of going to school is number one to learn English and them to learn about the world.  All information is important but it’s urgent that my son, learn English because no one else in the family is going to school. 

 

2.    What are your the hopes and dreams you have for your child ?

I really want my son to learn English, this would help the whole family and I would really like it if he would go to a university, but if he decides not to its also O.K

 

3.    What are your worries or what worries you the most about your child’s future.

I worry that he will give up or that we wont have enough money to send him to school.

 

4.    Do you have any suggestions for the school, teachers and administrators

No I think things are good so far, I like it that there are people I can speak to in Spanish.

 

5.    What is the main difference between the Mexican education system and the U.S educational system. 

 

   Things seem to be more organized here, but I don’t think I know enough yet to compare.  So far things look good but I also liked the system in Mexico.

 

 

 

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